Dear Rhona,

I decided years ago that I was going to age naturally, no botox, no facelifts, no fillers. I donโ€™t want to mess with the natural process and above all, want to be a good example for my daughter. How can I mentor her on positive body image if Iโ€™m altering my own face?

The problem is, some of my closest friends have started to have regular botox and they look fantastic, fresher than they have in years. I was surprised initially as thought that they would have frozen face straight away but youโ€™d never even know. My resolve not to do it is slipping, my face is looking older and more weathered compared to them and Iโ€™m starting to feel crap about myself.