Whenย Pidgeon Pagonis was born, the baby’s parents and doctors were presentedย a choice: should the newbornย be a boy or a girl?
Because Pagonisย was born intersexย โ which describes about 1.7 percent of babiesย born with both male and female sex traits or characteristics โ the answer was not immediately clear.
Those overseeing Pagonis’ care at Children’s Memorial Hospital, which is now Lurieย Children’s Hospital, told Pagonis’ parents it would be safer for theย infant to be female and live as a girl,ย Pagonisย said.
Now 31, Pagonis is fighting back against that lack of choiceย โ and speaking publicly about the personal trauma caused by multiple invasive, damaging genital surgeries.
Having learned of and embraced beingย intersex, Pagonisย now uses “they/them” pronouns and describes their gender as being non-binary, or not distinctly a man or a woman.
“I don’t believe that non-intersex surgeons or parents should have the right to surgically alter a healthy intersex person’s body, and their genitalia specifically, because of all the problems that arise from it,” Pagonis said. “It’s a violation of that child’s human rights, and I don’t understand why it happens.”