A surgical procedure isn’t your typical stocking stuffer. The American Society of Plastic Surgeons created a short tip sheet of Dos and Don’ts when considering such a personal present.

“Gifting plastic surgery should really be the gift of a consultation with a board-certified plastic surgeon and a promise to purchase the appropriate procedure,” said Heather Furnas, MD, an adjunct assistant professor of plastic surgery at Stanford University with a private practice in Santa Rosa, Calif. “Without a consultation, you can’t create a rapport with your surgeon and you won’t know your surgical options.”

If you’re thinking about gifting a plastic surgery procedure, keep these tips in mind: